I once asked myself; what was going through the mind of God, when He invented sex? Why did God put this strong drive in man, that is almost, if not totally impossible for so many people to master.
The only answer I was able to get within me was that, it is for our enjoyment. One can't hide the fact that in as much as sex is pleasurable, it has also destroyed many. It is like an explosive with in-built ability to destroy. So, you are not ready for it until you are ready.
May I say however, that sex is sweet. In fact, very sweet. Even though many people avoid talking about it, especially in religious circles, the truth is we all feel it. Even the thought of it alone, let alone the main act, is like honey to the soul. Though relationships are not all about sex, but wait a minute, it is vital to the growth of your relationship.
What disturbs me however is not sex as it were, but the attainment of the highest peak of sexual enjoyment and satisfaction (orgasm). How many persons have really experienced it, the women are on the losing side here, because most men orgasms with ease, but unfortunately 90% of women have never ever experienced it. No thanks to their guys in most cases.
Orgasm is a force that unifies the woman and the man forever even after sex. Lack of it have destroyed homes, and made many people to return to their ex, who can really give it to them.
Who then is to be blamed? I rather not blame the man nor the woman, but both of them. Making it work depends on the two. Nothing should be held back. The journey to orgasm, starts with the man and woman opening up, and telling each other how he or she wants it and enjoys it, and the other responding and adapting to same. It has to do with expressing your feelings about sex to your partner. That is the key.
Do you know that whether you are a lady or a guy doesn't matter, it's all about you and your partner having the best sex and orgasm ever. It's really easy, See For Yourself.
Olubunmi O. Bello
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