Now, let us look at a situation where you can't give it to your partner because of some seemingly avoidable factors. I believe your guess is as good as mine. Of course, the relationship would lack color, joy, and satisfaction that only sex brings, and would in the long run collapse.
Sex should not be avoided at all. In fact nothing should take its place. Talking about the Holy Book for example, partners were admonished to seek the consent of each other whenever one is to undertake a religious act such as fasting. Why? It shows the importance of sex, and the topmost place given to it by divinity. God invented it and put it in us anyway!
I will highlight 2 forces that should be stopped and avoided from robbing you of your sexual fulfillment. They are;
Fatigue. Your time should be well managed. Activities should be prioritized, so as to ensure you have both time and energy for sex. At times, this could involve a change of schedules, because one of the partners might be one that comes back late from work, thereby lacking stamina for sex. In this case, re-adjust by going to bed early, and having sex in the morning. It must not be done at night anyway.
Generally speaking, the ball is in the court of the man and his woman.
If you fail to tackle and avoid these things, your sexual relationship will suffer. Work on them, and on yourselves, and you will have the best sex and orgasm humanly possible.
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